Read Sandi's rules, girl! Believe nothing what they say and half of what they do.
I doubt he is having the time of his life.
From my own life experiences, when I went south, I wanted everyone, read that my W, to think that my life was perfect. That it was awesome. That it was everything that my life in MN was not. That things could not have turned out better.
It was a lie. A big fat lie.
The truth is that I was never more miserable... never more angry... never more dissatisfied with my life ever.
If he putting his paycheck into the joint account then you might consider depositing a portion of your check as well.
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter