Moving forward together from a mess

[cbtdad]

Things are definitely moving at a quick pace now it seems like.
We leave for Atlanta on Tuesday. I am nervously excited. We both realize how much work we have to do and are both committed to making this marriage work.
Just kind of scary. Going from living in a 2600 square foot house, to not living together for almost 8 months and now moving into a 1100 square foot apartment that will we be on top of each other. I've got to have my exit strategy to the gym:)
MC said we need to pay attention to this and both need to take a wall or something if things get heated. MC said this is a great thing and we will have to depend on each other and it will require team work which will grow out bond stronger. She said the last couple months with her we have been doing crisis management. Now the real work is about to begin. I'm excited about where things are headed.
W is at a horse show right now since Wed night and I have been fine with it. She has talked sharply a few times at me because she is having a bad day at show. I am not ok with this, but will wait to talk about it after the move. This is a big 180 for me. Normally, i would have got upset with that and wanted to get into it right away. Now I realize her being short with me is not about me personally. So I just listen and validate.
I'm keeping records of how the communication is while she is at this show so we can discuss how to better handle it before the next one. But like I said, I am going to wait till after the move