Look, it sukcs when they don't tell you what is wrong until they have made a decision.
Guess what, almost everyone here can tell that same story.
You are laying all of this in his lap.
You haven't even answered my simple question of why you were waiting for him to act before you tried to begin to heal...
You have no crystal ball so you don't know what the future holds but I can tell you, if you don't start working on you, so he can see the changes, you will more than likely not ever reconcile with him.
Have you ever heard of the Butterfly Effect?
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
