Ha, I agree I'm not to old yet. After reading what Sandi wrote yesterday set me to thinking last night. The links to the threads you provided regarding MLC and LBS's I read with great interest also. There are also some posts here where its mentioned that in some cases the LBS knows their WAS fairly well. Yes, they are in a somewhat different state of mind. However, alot of their patterns and ways of thinking can still be identified from your M with them. Yes, many go way off their usual patterns. It seems to me that the WAS's who leave and experience hurt and pain or whatever else it can be described as do do for one reason, they care about the S they left. With that said, my WAW has a couple of things I know about her and her thought process. First off, she has the ability to completely change her mind on things in a flash. One minute she can be saying it one way and then for whatever reason hours or sometimes a day or so later she see's it completely different. Several times I have been completely baffled by this. The second thing is and this is where I have concern is that she is easily talked into or out of something. This is known by her own family to be the case with her. Not sure yet how this all adds up to this sitch but, I am sure there are current and future actions to come from these. Any thoughts?
