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Originally Posted By: PatientMan
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I think I understand boundaries a bit better now.

Is it something people would list or just mentally now where they are?

List for yourself if that helps you adhere to them.

-PM


For some reason your posts don't show up until a day later in my threads. This has just shown up now and the other has just shown up in my new thread. Just this minute got emails about the replies too.

You back on moderation?


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OM x 2 in 2013
W wants R July 13
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Meet GF Nov 13
Have I changed enough? Jul 14

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Originally Posted By: T1000
Originally Posted By: PatientMan
Originally Posted By: T1000
I think I understand boundaries a bit better now.

Is it something people would list or just mentally now where they are?

List for yourself if that helps you adhere to them.

-PM


For some reason your posts don't show up until a day later in my threads. This has just shown up now and the other has just shown up in my new thread. Just this minute got emails about the replies too.

You back on moderation?


Correct. It's explained in my thread.

-PM


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Hey T, what are you doing over the weekend?


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Hi Sandi,
I've got the kids, took them swimming today for the first time since January. They loved it. Not sure about tomorrow as its putting a lot of rain down tonight.

I'm struggling a bit with expectations this weekend. W has been very quiet today and my mind keeps thinking about it especially since it felt like we were getting somewhere in regards to MC's and discussing things via email.
I keep having to push myself back to where I was earlier in the week to remind myself I'm fine either way.

I've noticed you haven't been by my new thread yet, have you seen it?:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2371212&page=1


M36 W31
S4 S2
T5 M4
BD Jan12 S July12
Recon Sep12-Nov12
ILBINILWY Jan13
OM x 2 in 2013
W wants R July 13
I start D. Jan 14.
Meet GF Nov 13
Have I changed enough? Jul 14

The World is still My Oyster!
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