Just know that there are other men out there dealing with WAWs that do the same thing. I am divorced from my WAW for 5 years now. I still love her. Recently we have gone out together with our kids. She has a wall up and once in a awhile lets it down and we all laugh etc. BUT the second I say anything that she senses has an effect on her independence she slams down hard on me. I believe a lot of these WAWs are all about their need for independence.
I have been getting along with my XW better in the last few months. She was seeing someone and ended it. So I asked her if she want to just go out and do something fun and light like a movie or walking the dog? She replied "Sorry, but she will pass on going out together".
I think eventually we all get fed up with this an just want to be with someone that is excited to be with us.
Sorry my friend.
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09
