Sorry you are in this sitch but this is a good place to be. It is difficult while on moderation, but keep posting your thoughts and visit other threads and you will be off sooner and will get more replies. Keep reading Sandi's rules over and over and try to follow them. As far as W's birthday, I am a newbie so don't know for sure, but I would think maybe making a cake and card and getting maybe a small gift from the kids for her wouldn't be a bad idea. Just don't have any expectations from her. Best of luck with your sitch!
Me: 27 H: 27 Together: 11, M: 3 S 2 BD: 06/24/13 Living together H: EA - unknown current status Read: DB, 5LL (slowly reading DR) Back and forth we go...