Fantasy meets Reality

[Notlikingthis]

As I was rushing out of here yesterday afternoon to meet a friend for dinner my h was walking up the street toward the house. I was in a hurry but stopped for a few seconds to say hi. He asked me what I was up to. I told him that I was going into the city, was in a hurry and was sorry but had to get going. A few hours later, while I'm still at dinner, I get this text from him.

"You looked great!! Off on a date?"

I'm really getting tired of him asking me that question (are you dating) just about every time he talks to or sees me. I have tried to handle it differently each time he asks by either laughing, giving a non answer or changing the subject. Btw he did eventually notice the bouquet of roses that mysterious appeared at my doorstep awhile back. He wanted to know who they were from. I told him that there wasn't a card and that I had no clue. I think he's put the roses and my distancing together and assumes that I'm seeing someone. I found out from a mutual friend that the ow's h has gal and is enjoying his life without her. She is as pleased as can be will be filing for D very soon if she hasn't already. I know that he's hoping that it will be that easy for him.

So my question is how to respond when he asks. I thought about telling him that my personal life is none of his concern (too harsh) or why do you ask or simply just saying NO. What I'd really like to convey to him is to stop asking me that question!!! Maybe I'm making too much out of this but I know how he thinks. She's doing fine now, has someone in her life etc. and I don't have to feel guilty for what I'm about to do (file).

My daughter sent a text yesterday telling me that she and her bf broke up. It's been a pretty long term r and even though it was a mutually agreed to breakup she is pretty upset. She's decided not to come home this weekend. What the heck is going on? Does anyone else think that the full moon has anything to do with all of this? LOL!