Oh Dawn. I just checked in to catch up. I am so sorry that things have come to this. You have been going through this a very long time just as I have. I have done the same thing, told h I am done.

Sometimes I think we make it too easy for them and they are not forced to move forward. You are going to be just fine. And H. Think about when your kids were young. Sometimes as much as we didn't want them to fail or make mistakes that was the only way they were going to learn. He needs to experience some pain.

My oldest d was like that. I was the parent that tried to make sure they made the decision "I" thought was right. When we let her make mistakes she thought things through more carefully.

Is your h seeing a counselor? That may help him through his issues. I don't remember reading if he had any help.

I am thinking of you Dawn, praying for you to have the strength to get you through this. You are stronger than you think.

M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out