“If they loved me they would XXXXX as a function and degree of their love for me.” “Since they haven’t they must not love me” So begins a rollercoaster and IMO was a source for cognitive dissonance exhibited by my X. I admit to some of this stinking thinking.
There!
That about crystallizes the whole shebang. We can't believe that our vision of what constitutes showing love is also everyone else's.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
