I think like so many of us on here we stand and wait. After so many years I got tired of it. Even though I probably still love him at some point I also see that I needed to move on I missed having someone special. He had ow. As long as he had her who knows how long this could have gone on.
H's a had turned into an r and even though it was on shaky ground who knows. She had started to show her true colors but it didn't seem like h had really seen it.
FY yes I think he is scared. He has mentioned to me about the kids and starting over. He blames that on me because I want the house. Seriously? When you don't want your m and you have an OW isn't that what happens? You start over. I guess he wanted me to lose all of that. Of course he still blames me for everything so he still has a ways to go.
M 48 H 50 M 25 T 27 D 20,18,15 6/11 H filed 3/12 H dropped 4/12 H moved out
