I agree KP, good post smile I like the bit about being happy, I'm always happy when H is round because I'm pleased to see him smile I also like the bit when you say that they say that they are happy when they aren't. My H goes around telling everyone that he's happier now than he's been for a long time.
Some important post came for H this morning, but I'm not going to tell him about it if he's not even going to answer my calls. He has to be the next one to contact me smile

H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!