H stopped by tonight. Something tells me now that I have told him that I'm done that maybe he's not so sure.
Funny how that works, isn't it?
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So I'm still ready to move on. If we have a conversation soon that he tells me that he has had second thoughts and he is willing to stop all communication with ow and work on our m then maybe I'll change my mind but I can't see him agreeing to that and 4 years or so is a long time to stand and be treated like dirt. But he never feels like talking so I can't see that even happening.
You just stay ready to move on. Don't give in to H insincere commitment just because he's now scared. You are the prize... he has to chase you, do the work on himself and earn you. That's the only way this'll work. Stay done... for now.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
