Don't worry about what your MIL posted. You know that you've been there for your family and so does your W. But, b/c of her sitch any kind of help she accepts from you will only throw her further into any guilt she already has.
Stay strong--I know you will!!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.