Raine, I know it was tough, but you did what you needed to do. And you set very clear boundaries, so there is no way your H can say he didn't know better if he does mess up.

You've told him that you love him, but that you have to take priority over him. There's no need to feel bad about putting yourself first.

Take care of yourself!

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13