I, too, think we will always have expectations, it's managing those expectations and realizing that others will have differing expectations that's key.

That's what makes it such a dance...and you're a dancer.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss