I say to H all the time actually...he creates his own happiness. Or I used to.
And so do you....so why all the control? Who's happiness are you trying to impact?
Originally Posted By: forlovessake
I'm scared that H and I should never have gotten married...we fought a lot and I knew in my heart God was telling me not to. Yet, I do love him. We're just soooo different and we've never had the spark a lot of couples do or been truly lovey dovey happy.
The starting point, the history of the marriage, and all that related stuff....does it really matter at this point?