Originally Posted By: forlovessake
I say to H all the time actually...he creates his own happiness. Or I used to.


And so do you....so why all the control? Who's happiness are you trying to impact?

Originally Posted By: forlovessake
I'm scared that H and I should never have gotten married...we fought a lot and I knew in my heart God was telling me not to. Yet, I do love him. We're just soooo different and we've never had the spark a lot of couples do or been truly lovey dovey happy.


The starting point, the history of the marriage, and all that related stuff....does it really matter at this point?

Where do you want to go from today forward?


M:44 W:42
M:15
S:19, D:16, S:14, D:12, S:6
BD: 2/14/11
D Final: 6/25/13