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But how do I know that is true or not


You don't.

This is part of the detaching, the letting go.

What difference would it make if you knew? It would just make you mad, and make you sad. But you wouldn't be able to "do" anything about it. So, remain ignorant!

There is nothing I can do at this time but keep hoping that one day H will come back to our family.

No! Almost, but No!

There is nothing I can do at this time but keep hoping that one day H will come back to our family.

There is nothing I can do at this time but keep working on ME!

YES!!


Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.