i have found a counsellor, 3 times more expensive than all the others but ticks all the boxes.
Gonna try set up an appointment for next week.

Do I make a point of getting W to pay half?

M36 W31
S4 S2
T5 M4
BD Jan12 S July12
Recon Sep12-Nov12
ILBINILWY Jan13
OM x 2 in 2013
W wants R July 13
I start D. Jan 14.
Meet GF Nov 13
Have I changed enough? Jul 14

The World is still My Oyster!