Your h's behavior is too funny. Moving his toothbrush to another part of the bathroom? Just more confirmation of toddler behavior. Remember when your boys were 2 years old and they were trying to assert their independence? LOL
No more shoe purchases that I can see but then she has her own acct that he is funding for the house expenses. I'm certain that she will find a way to sneak in a few shoe purchases but I won't have the pleasure of seeing them. The important thing is that HE see them. He is not (or at least hasn't been) the type of person to ignore finances. He's all over investments and budgets!
It's my oldest son's birthday today. He's off mountain climbing somewhere so we won't have the awkwardness of having to attend a party. Holidays are going to be interesting this year. I suspect he will leave town as he always wanted to do in the past. For some reason he can't handle Holiday's. Many years we scheduled trips that would include being gone on Thanksgiving and or Christmas. He's never said anything but his holidays during childhood must have been less than happy.
I received 3 texts and 2 phone calls yesterday. H was all wound up about his truck tags expiring. I sent him the notice weeks ago and he must have forgotten (gee, is that possible) so he asked me to help him out. I reluctantly did and in some ways I wish I hadn't. He didn't come to pick up his truck after work until almost 9pm last night. I heard a car pull up and just as I looked to see who it was, I saw the ow speed off in my h's car.....one that I am a co-owner of. ARGGG! I let it go but have learned a lesson about helping him out in the future.
Off to the city to have dinner with a friend. Will check in later.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama