DB seemingly backfired w/ my H???

[Mimi00]

H got paid today for the first time since the official BD. When he went back to his job he had to sign a new contract since he had quit and didn't have plans to return(so he says...). I was worried he'd get his direct deposit setup to go into his own personal checking this time, but he didn't, it went into our joint checking per usual, as my work checks do as well.

I'm the only one who has a check card attached to that joint checking. But I no longer use it since the BD, I got a card for a personal checking account so I plan to just transfer a small chunk of money to my personal account and spend from there instead of the joint one. I figured him not seeing me "spending" maybe he won't get annoyed and want to "cut me off". If that makes sense?
He said he'll support me for as long as I need, but I'm being cautious with trusting that so that's why I did that, as well as why I want to move back to where we lived and go back to my full time job.

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I texted him today just to let him know that I did get the car serviced as planned, it runs much better and said I hope he's having a nice week.

H: That's good. Spent my morning delivering twins. My week is going fine. How about you?

Me: How often do you work in the ob now, I know you've said in the past that's not always your favorite. Has to be a rewarding experience though. I am doing fine.

(I mentioned him saying it's not his favorite on purpose, so he knows I listened when he told me work stories in the past)

H: Yes it is. I've been taking call in the ob

(I took 40 mintues respond after that. I had nothing to say really, I don't know what to say most of the time anymore because I'd rather tell him to come to his senses and lets work this out. I want to tell him the emotional roller coaster I've been on this week. But of course I don't.)

I finally said:
Me: "That's cool. I'd like to see that in person someday, see what it's like in real time. Hope you enjoy the rest of you day"


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I am going out of town tomorrow to apartment search and GAL. I didn't get any responses from here on whether I should tell him or not. So I haven't told him. I guess this will be a 180 for me, being mysterious, usually I'm an open book. When he finds out I'm there, he may think I decided not to take his advice to wait 30 days and moved.

Hopefully he doesn't react negatively. Any one think he may and I should go about this differently?