Well, another day has passed. I'm re-reading DB and awaiting the arrival of my copy of DR. I've been very positive, happy and helpful toward my wife and children. I'm attempting 180's whenever I have an opportunity. For months, I have been angry that she has been working 7 days per week til after 9:00p.m. or looking for anything else to do and is willing to help anyone who wants her time, except me. So, I past the time drinking. When she would get home I'd be angry or drunk. Not beligerant or physical, just not in a good mood. She nmentioned that to my sister a while ago, so that is the first thing I've done a 180 on. No drinking and being very pleasant. My wife is gone so much of the day that we only see each other for about 30 minutes in the morning and about 2 1/2 hours in the evening. I make dinner, take care of the household chores and make her life easy. I haven't been calling to check when she'll be home or texting for no reason for about a week. As a result, my phone is quiet on the incoming side. She only calls to tell me she'll be leaving work soon. That gives her time to visit with the OM, then come home. I'm trying to limit my inquiries about her day and waiting for her to speak to me, which is minimal. She spends alot of her time with her smart phone texting and sending email. Do I just trudge on with my DBing?
Vince B M=10 yrs T=13 yrs M45 / H 44 2 Boys 5 & 8 D Day: 7/16/13
