Thank you KarenR! I appreciate your suggestion and I agree the answer is not simple. After reading many similar posts, some seem to think that not disclosing that I am aware of the PA is biding metime to practice my DBing and 180's. At the same time, its so humiliating and crushing to know my wife is coming home everyday after spending time with OM. Anyone who is or has been in my sitch, please provide your experience with regrad to exposing or not exposing and what your results were. Thanks! I'll keep checking in.
Vince B M=10 yrs T=13 yrs M45 / H 44 2 Boys 5 & 8 D Day: 7/16/13