Wiley has been coaching me too, in detaching and not being so available. I think we need to make sure our Hs don't imagine that they are the only thing in our lives, while they go off and try out all sorts of things. We have to create a little mystery and intrigue. Pretend if we have to, but better still, actually FIND OURSELVES TOO BUSY to agree to all their suggestions! IT feels GREAT!!
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"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates