Questions without answers...am I stuck in place?

[RosaLinda]

Dawn, I feel so so badly for you. Your H sounds horribly depressed, and angry. The extreme anger and seeming to be in an angry trance sounds so scary. My H went thru two or three angry periods over the past 4 years, but for about 2 weeks in spring 2011, I was afraid of him too. He threw things around including at me, and seemed to be full of hate. It was scary. I wanted him gone, so when he told me he was leaving to go visit EA1 in Russia, I told him fine, but he could not return to our house, and started to make plans about how I would support the household without him. But he never left, within a few weeks the anger passed and he became very withdrawn. Within a few months he and EA1 broke up. So hopefully this extreme anger of your H will pass soon.

If you are afraid for your safety, please don't hesitate to call the police Dawn. Would your BIL or your H's friend who is a life coach be willing to sit down and talk to him, and maybe if needed, help you physically remove him from the house? My S27 keeps offering to kick his dad out for me. They get so protective of their mom.

Why is he so angry about his work? I remember you said a couple of his coworkers had complained about his performance. Do you think he might be losing his job? You said you always did his reports etc. for him right? Are you still doing that?

Dawn you do need someone to just vent to who understands what you are going thru. I would be very glad to talk to you. Do you have a DB alias on Facebook? If so I'll search and try to find you. I think Snodderly has some way to see your email address and says she'd talk to you too.