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Wow a lot going on.

Bitterness is an ugly thing.

I like what betsey said about it going hand in hand with forgivness. As you can find forgivness for your H and his actions, the bitterness will fade.

It start with you. With thought patterns, with understanding, and with acceptance.

It is very healing and freeing.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox