Do you think an email basically saying you can't ask me to cut wood, fix pipes and replace outlets at your new home, is going against being the friend?
I have the same dilemma. We're pretty friendly with each other, but W has been pretty good thus far not asking for stuff like this. It's only been about month though for me w/her out of the house. My W is very resourceful. I sense I'd act the same as you though. Let me know if you figure this out. Do you have to write a letter regarding boundaries? I'd stay away from letter writing for awhile. Can't your actions just speak them?
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I've said it before and it still goes through my head every day. How does a women with 2 young kids, and 2 months prego with a third have the urge to leave and live alone?
How does your W not have an OM? There's gotta be something behind the scenes. Is there an active EA you don't know about? I've heard the same things about me moving the family to a nicer locale and W following along.
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