Don't know what happened but my mind is racing once again this time it feels like deep down that H and OW is moving in together I don't know if this is real or not and I know that I will have to let it go cause I have no control over what H and OW does. I just don't want my boys around that person at this time. This is a bad dream I had last night. I hope this dream is not real right now. And I'm trying not to ask cause if its real them I know that I'm going to be really hurt about it. I wish my mind would just stop doing the roller coaster emotions. OK I'm.going to try to go back to sleep now.
K, sorry you're going thru this. Would your H be wiling to an agreement about the boys and the OW? Mine agreed that there would be no contact for a minimum of 6 months from date of separation to allow our son to adjust to the new situation. Of course I did word it "no new partner of either of us..." In order to not come across as demanding.
Stay strong.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
