It does give me a little hope that your H didn't say he wanted to work on the marriage until 6 months after BD. my W only stayed in the house 30 days after BD and has lived away for 3 months so I'm only 4 months in so far. When I read threads with people well over a year I get discouraged big time. I truly don't know how they can hold on so long or that the spouse has not filed for divorce themselves after so long.
So it seems like the month that he has been gone has affected him. Is he renting or staying with friends?


M:33
W:32
Married:8
Together:10
S:5,4 and 8 months
BD: 4/1/13
W move out day: 5/4/13
ILYBNINWY,WAS. No talk of wanting to save relationship