Its nice to know that this not an unusual feeling. I live in another country and i hence feel removed from any help from someone overseas. i have all micheles books and found them invaluable.
I have always had in the back of my mind that i would write my ex a letter. I apologised a lot when my marriage ended for the affair i had. We spent a few turbulent years trying to get the marriage back but it never worked. Time and distance has allowed me to see EXACTLY the pain I caused with the affair. Although i was sorry initially it was probanly more bout me.
If I wrote a sincere letter now, should I raise the topic of "what if " and could we try again?
Remembering he lives with a 'FRIEND ' and i have a boyfriend
As for my current relationship I am ina quandry. I am a much better partner with my current boyfriend. I am someone my husband deserved to have. I feel i wanted him to know how changed i am , i want my family back together ( for my kids sake ). I never did not love my xh I just grew bored and i blamed him for that. I know that was incorrect and after much soul searching and book reading I changed, I matured.
what to do now , I dont know. I am stuck, cant move forward and I cant go back.
