I am still here, waiting to see my posts appear was a 12 hour wait.
Mr Bond,I would be interested to read what you mean in your last sentence.Thanks.
I cant change my husband's mind at the moment,I realise that,as the affair is still too new and exciting for him ( whatever their ages) He says so many conflicting things, and is still hugging me mornings and nights and seems not to want to leave me to live with her at the moment, he could ,as she has a place to stay while she is over here. He is also making plans for the autumn work we need to do in our garden and talking about repairing a chair that broke, I dont see why he would bother if he plans on leaving?
The first cracks in his smooth attitude appeared 2 days ago when he said to me " I might as well get a rope and hang myself and be done with it all", and he said something similar again yesterday. To me this indicates he is under a lot of turmoil and pressure.
At the moment the OW still has the upperhand but maybe if I can hang in there and be patient ,time is on my side? I dont know.
Thanks for all your replies, I am so wobbly and weak at the moment I need my hands holding !
