LOL. You have 2 toddlers! The nature of that beast is that they are crazy, so they are going to drive you crazy too!
I know it's hard. I can't imagine having 2 very small children and doing what you do. Get some sleep. That usually helps any situation... Sleep is so underrated when you have small kids. I've told people that I think some of the decisions my XH and I made that negatively affected our marriage were made from sleep deprivation...
Hugs,
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."