Pam- Thanks for the quick reply. I think you are centered and reminding us all to do the same!
As for my day, today....H called around noon ( let it go to VM) and said he was staying in the city, not coming out to the house. He will come out tomorrow morning to hang with me and son. Said call me if you have anything urgent to discuss. Soooooo....I, of course, did NOT call and took off for a long walk with the dog. Got some exercise and had some talks with God.
Then got home and ran errands all afternoon. I had a VM from H both on my cell and at home....but still he did not ask me to call. He was just wondering about my plans to pick up Son tonight. So, decided not to contact him...cuz there is nothing "Urgent" to discuss. I might leave him a VM saying I'm en route to get son and will see him tomorrow.
Just trying to keep the detachment thing going. All you support here on the BB is really helping me stay on track....thanks to everyone. This would be impossible alone!!!