Oh so how long was your H gone before he said he wanted to work on the marriage? And when he left did he say he wanted a divorce or was it just a trial from the get go?
It was probably 6 months after BD. He said divorce initially but never did anything and threatened to move out several times. Separation is "just temporary" to use the words he used when telling S13. We're now 7 months since BD and 1 month since he moved out. We have good days and bad days but for the first 2-3 months it was mostly bad. Anything is an improvement. I've seen it on here several times that if the lips are moving he's lying so I'm trying not to read anything it but it's hard not to see the smallest thing as positive. I'm just learning to be ready for the next let down or backslide.
Like the vets say this is a marathon not a sprint
Stay strong, keep up with GAL and try to maintain PMA. That's all we can do
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
