I just respectfully disagree with you. By not being discrete, my wife has already involved my kids. My W has no business introducing these men to my kids.
If my wife was doing lines of coke at the table, while my kids did their homework, would it be inappropriate to pull them away and explain to them that this behaviour was wrong? Would telling them that drugs are destructive and that they should not be doing them be "Making their Mom out to be bad"?
But, for some reason, a married woman carrying on with single men, taking off her wedding ring, sleep ing on the couch etc.. is OK and I should just avoid any discussion of it? How stupid do you think my kids are?
And just to be clear, according to my values, mommy's behaviour is "Bad". That is just the simple truth. I want to teach my values to my kids. At the end of the day, my W owns her behaviour, not me.
