Hi 2old, I have been responding to your messages from last night. I've managed to get on a couple of times today I would listen to cadet as he knows what he's talking about. She sounds like she's getting closer to you, but don't let this stop your doing a 180 on her. The only time you should start getting closer to her is when she wants MC or talks about R. As cadet says, if you don't know what to do or what to reply then do nothing. If you do speak to her, then be polite and friendly but not too friendly. Get busy, so that you are too busy to check your emails as often. Have you done anything about GAL yet? If she does come back, is she coming back to a changed man or is it going to be same old, same old! I know I've got a lot of work to do on me before H comes back (or not!). Whatever happens, I need to work on me so if H doesn't come back and I get a new partner then the same thing won't happen with him! Be prepared for her return, go to the gym, go on a diet, clean and tidy the house, etc. If or when she comes back, if nothing's improved then she might just leave again!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I would listen to cadet as he knows what he's talking about. She sounds like she's getting closer to you, but don't let this stop your doing a 180 on her. The only time you should start getting closer to her is when she wants MC or talks about R.