Have you set up your new thread K? Let me know what it's called when you do. Mrbond, it's not a good idea for K to demand money off him at this stage. I read a book that had a testimonial in it about the WAS spending all his money on the OW and the W didn't demand a penny. Guess who he chose in the end? I would go to see an L if H doesn't keep to his word and you need the money!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!