If they are in an internal conflict and really are exploring other options and keeping us as a safety net then at what point do we have to stand up for ourselves and say I won't be a safety net? I want to be wanted, loved without question, appreciated for what I do. We just have to work on ourselfs and hope they want the marriage to work at some point down the line on their timeline? I know we all have a say in whether your willing to take someone back but I feel like I'm giving away all power and waiting for my W to decide my fate. Hope that's not too negative but I feel I have taken a turn toward down cycling today after starting out so good. Dang it!
M:33 W:32 Married:8 Together:10 S:5,4 and 8 months BD: 4/1/13 W move out day: 5/4/13 ILYBNINWY,WAS. No talk of wanting to save relationship
