Wife has still been wearing wedding rings. She has been going back and forth with being positive and negative towards me. Still mostly negative but with brief periods of positive attitude towards me.
She coordinated with me to make another MC appointment for the both of us. That's a positive. She even coordinated a baby sitter for the kids I am still using the squirrel analogy. I move very slow so I don't scare off the squirrel. Im running the marathon, so to speak.
Other than that, we still butt heads about the family gatherings and whether I am allowed to go too. She did allowed me to go to a bday lunch for her aunt. Another positive! After I she said I was allowed to go, I realized that I did not have enough time. I had to pack for work.
I made good use of my time though. I did laundry, vacuumed the downstairs, cleaned the back porch.
The night before, at dinner, I made her a salad to have with dinner. She commented on it. She said this is a good salad. That surprised me. She has said that once before about my salads. Normally she is mostly negative and it was nice to hear her say something nice like that.
So, while she was at lunch with the kids and aunt, I made her another one and left it in the fridge for her. When I talked to her the next morning, she didn't mention the salad but she did asked if I had cleaned the back porch. I said yes and, much to my surprise, she said thank you. Another small positive.
We have a MC appointment this Friday 26th. We will see how it goes.
I am still using the squirrel analogy. I move very slow so I don't scare off the squirrel. Im running the marathon, so to speak.