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Originally Posted By: in_it
Yes, H has told me each time that they have had contact & even shown me their exchanges. It helps that he is so open.


Fantabulous! Glad H gets it. smile


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Woke up around 4AM needing to use the restroom. One of those awesome things that come with pregnancy--getting up a couple of times a night to go.

When I crawled back into bed H grabbed held me until the alarm went off. I haven't had such a close intimate feeling with H in months.

Not a word was said between the two of us, but it felt as though a thousand things were said. I hope to continue these moments as we grow in our new relationship.

I'm going to GAL with a few girlfriends tonight. We are going to a have dinner downtown where a bunch of street vendors/food trucks gather on Wednesday evenings. It's a lot of fun with great food with a ton of varieties & you can't beat the people watching.


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So glad to here that things have take a turn for you, In.

Keep working on you and making the changes permanent, GAL, and give him space.

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Hey girl smile So sweet. You're doing great. Keep taking it slow. Thanks for continuing to come and post and let us know how you are. It's such a blessing to read.

I hope your food truck GAL night was great fun! And I hope you escaped the indigestion! lol!


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Hey In_It! I hope blessings are continuing to flow your way for both you and hubby! smile


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Chiming in to say congrats on the twins and so very important to keep all your changes going.

Don't over think any actions, good or bad, by H and continue along smile

Happy for all of you

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Thought of you this morning InIt! I'm hoping no news is good news! smile I was checking to see if you started a new thread... maybe in Piecing? wink I hope you and hubby are doing well, the girls and the twins too!


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Hi! I've been out of check for a while. Things are still ok.

I've been having a couple of down weeks really. H continues to communicate with OW & It's really starting to get to me. He tells & even shows me, but I just want it to stop. I don't know what to do?


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Is this a boundary for you? Is it going to become one?

If H and I ever reconciled a boundary would be GF1, I wouldn't mind if he kept in touch with GF2.

If he could not respect this one, it would eventually destroy our relationship, I think. That's just me though.

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Hey, Ruby. Thanks for the insight. This is exactly what I've been trying to figure out.

I have not set that a boundary, but do think it may be on it's way to one. Right now I'm just keeping a PMA when it comes up. H knows how I feel about it & understands.

In a weird way I understand the difficultness on his side as well.

No one said this was going to be easy.


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