And just when I was starting to get my emotions back under control, H texted a little while ago simply saying "remember we're not done yet" although he left off the additional comment he made last night "but we're getting closer". I haven't responded to that one yet. Not sure what to make of it. Is he pushing for me to make a decision about moving out? Is he trying to see how I'll react?
I know, stop trying to mind read!!
I haven't read your entire sitch, but this caught my attention. My W also said that she "was working her back to me". I think they are in internal conflict and they want to keep the safety net of the marriage while they explore other options. I'm not sure what to do about it, other than not read too much into it.