It could be part of the rollercoaster and it could be anything. We would be mindreading if we knew what was going on in their brain. The most confusion seems to be at the beginning and the very end.
She is being ruled by emotions and adrenalin right now. Best to let this part cool down and then see where you are at.
MHO is when in doubt do nothing. Sit back and be patient and the answers will come to you.
