Thanks FY and SA. I'm trying real hard to keep hope. It's very hard to do so when you interact everyday. SA the db coaching really helped to set me on my path.

I spoke to my IC today and she encouraged me to tell w we could no longer act as a married couple. W needs to face the music, tell the boys and stop hanging out up her everyday, not sit together at church, etc. I told her that was not something I thought would help me reach my goal. Any thoughts?

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later