Have you read DR/DB yet? How about 5 love languages?

Originally Posted By: forlovessake
I feel like I need to change my desire to parent H. I need to nag less and let him do what he's going to do; knowing when it's best to bite my to hue.


Where do you think that comes from? Why do you feel like you need to control him?

Originally Posted By: forlovessake
I also need to engage in his activities/interests more, and be more complimentary.


Do read The Five Love Languages...you just mentioned two of them, but neither may be his primary.

Originally Posted By: forlovessake
In addition, when fights do arise I know name calling and threats are not ok.


Why do you think you do that? More control?

M:44 W:42
M:15
S:19, D:16, S:14, D:12, S:6
BD: 2/14/11
D Final: 6/25/13