Sorry Pippa, but there's no quick fix here. If you want some concrete immediate advice and action plan, I recommend making an appointment with one of the DB coaches...I've had several and they are very helpful.
You can't change your H...he's going to have to work thru this on his own. What you can do is work on you, and enforce your own boundaries.
So back to my original questions:
Originally Posted By: Breakdown
So what haven't you liked about your role in the M? What are some of your H's complaints? What would you like to work on to make yourself "the W only a fool would leave?"
And how about the reading? Have you started working thru the books yet?