Hi Dawn, I have been thinking about you and your sitch. I am concerned by some of the things you have said about how you are feeling.

Can you go see a doc about maybe getting something to take the edge off a bit?

I can see your h is co dependent on you. That is a heavy burden to carry.

Only you know when you have had enough. If you have, it is ok to say you are done with the sitch as it is now and you will move forward.

He has to know that you mean it or it will not work.

He also has to work this through on his own.

Please try to figure out some way to get some light in your life. It is so important and something you deserve.

Do just one small thing for you. Something fun or to relax you a bit.

You can do this, D.