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My W was incredibly nice- We went on a vacation together, the night we came back was the first night of separate beds.

Ive learned in my sitch that she was so relieved after dropping the bomb that she was happy. The night I confirmed the affair she was actually laughing......again relief.

MY W would be the same for a week or two and then take a step. Out late- then a week - then out all night- then a week- then a schedule of nights she would be home.

MINE IS EXTREME AND IN NO WAY SHOULD YOU ASSUME THAT YOU WILL ENDURE THIS!

The toughest steps are not asking where they are and not confronting them when they take their steps.

Setting boundaries will be key and there are some great guidelines on doing that in this site.

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