I HATE co-parenting (That "H" word was chosen on purpose)

Last night D3 says "When we leave the house where will I live" "Will I have a bedroom?" "Why wont Mommy be with us?"

That was my night. I wasnt even aware she knew we were selling the house

So our child psych told me that I should follow "Maslows Hierarchy
of needs"

Focus on stabilizing safety and security concerns and then re-assure love.

I dont know whats been said and by who. Was it her Mom or her Grandmom? Im concerned that she is being fed to much info too soon and she cant process- Everyone keeps saying "children are resilient" - at three, I dont buy it.


and PM- What is the most convenient way to get a BF test done? BMI felt better then just weight.......I feel like the goal posts have been moved.

I need to learn about BF


ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13