Tad, There is no rhyme or reason for what she does. Most likely, she still considers the family and extensions as friends and keeps up w/their news. You have to remember...you were the closest to her, therefore, she saw you as the problem, not the extended family. I would venture to guess that she's keeping up w/the news via the internet or in close contact.
Whatever she's doing, I wouldn't be too concerned about it. Maybe she thinks she's being helpful in letting you know things about your family. She's looking at this as being "friendly". I know it's not fair, but you've got to let her antics go down the toilet. One day, it will come back to bite her. For now, keep the focus on you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
