Need help detaching

[chl0901]

Hi lost, try not to feel too down about not ML while pregnant - my H and I didn't from about my 4 month mark (when I really started to show) until about 2 months after the birth. I had longed for our physically connection during that time, but he did not want to ML to me (and my hormonal self took it really personally). He was there emotionally for me at that time, which I know you do not have right now and I'm sorry. My H later told me it freaked him out to ML knowing our baby was right there. He never said this but I also think my weight gain may have turned him off in addition to the other reason (I gained 37 lbs). I think some men just have issues sleeping with a pregnant woman!